How do you get a man into the sack?

So I keep hearing everywhere that it is as simple as breathing to get 99% of available men into bed. I am having a lot of difficulty with this. I don't necessarily want a boyfriend, and I want a better selection than the hammered men at the bar. So, how do you get a sober man into bed? (Tactfully?) I'm pretty shy, but by no means unattractive. Though, I would have trouble being 'straight-up' about it. I have a certain guy in mind, and he is very gentlemanly and I dont know if the usual 'hey, do me' would work as well. Suggestions? I want to appear cly.